I have had 3 planned CS, starting with DS who was quite large (9 lbs, 3 oz., 23 inches and breech). A few things I learned along the way...
- They may strap your arms down in a cross pose. I do not know if it is necessary.
- To deliver DS (my big one) it took significant tugging, pulling and pressure, much more than I expected.
- You tend to get better care if you schedule such that you are in the hospital during the week, not the weekend.
- I did my own prep for shaving (not necessary to shave entire bikini area); it may be worthwhile to ask how much prep is necessary.
- It is wonderful to have hair cut, mani, pedi before the CS.
- It is wonderful to be able to line up childcare for other DC in advance and otherwise prepare DC for the big arrival.
- You can nurse the baby right away.
- It may not be in your best interest to get the catheter out quickly. The night after DD2 was born, I was up the entire time with the sensation of having to pee. Up all night miserable.
- Recovery was not difficult so long as you keep the pain under control (much more difficult to play catch up) and do not try to do too much too soon.
- A planned CS is very well organized w/ very little stress IME.
- CS babies are beautiful w/ nice round heads and no battle wounds which makes for great newbie pix!
Good luck and congratulations!